This week in class we got talking about socialising, specifically dinner parties, potlucks, or just hanging out at a friend’s place with drinks. And honestly? Even when you think you’ve got the language under control, these situations can trip you up. Big time.
Take me in Italian, for example. I’ve lost count of the times I’ve stood in someone’s doorway, they’re beaming at me, saying something lovely … and I just freeze. Smile like a statue. Zero words come out.
Or worse … someone offers me more food (of course they do, it’s Italy), and I panic and shoot back “No thanks!” in the bluntest possible way. Cue horrified silence. I might as well have said, “How dare you offer me lasagna!”
And don’t even get me started on compliments. I try to say something nice about the meal or the house, but instead I end up babbling a random mix of words that makes no sense whatsoever. Definitely not the smooth, charming guest I’d like to be.
I get it! I really do! These seemingly ordinary situations can sometimes cause a surprising amount of panic.
That’s why I’ve put together this list of ready-made social expressions, designed exactly for these moments.
Think of them as your little toolkit: once you’ve learned them, you can pull them out whenever you need to. No stress, no panic. Just smooth, confident English.
Enjoy!
Everyday Social Expressions
When you’re speaking English, even simple situations can feel awkward if you’re not sure what to say. Here are some ready-made expressions you can use to sound natural and polite.
1. Greetings / Welcoming
- Make yourself at home.
- Thanks for having me.
- It’s so nice to be here.
- Lovely to see you again.
2. Making and Responding to Compliments
- Everything smells amazing!
- What a beautiful home you have.
- This is delicious!
- That’s very kind of you to say.
- I’m glad you like it.
- You’re too kind.
3. Offering Food or Drinks
- Fancy … (a cup of tea/coffee)?
- Help yourself to … (some snacks/ a drink,)
- Can I get you something to drink?
- Would you like some more?
4. Accepting or Politely Refusing
- Yes, I’d love some.
- That would be great, thanks.
- Thanks, I’m fine for now.
- No, thank you — I’m full.
- Maybe just a little, please.
5. During the Visit
- Could I use your bathroom?
- Do you need a hand with that?
- This is such a cozy place.
- I really appreciate you inviting me.
6. Saying Goodbye
- Everything was wonderful.
- Thanks so much for having me.
- I had a lovely time.
- Thanks for coming.
- Let’s do this again soon.
👉 Practice tip: Choose two or three phrases from each section and try saying them aloud. Imagine you are at a friend’s house. What would you say when you arrive, during the meal, and when you leave?